Where were you born? Ullyses, Kansas. My parents (tho' from South Indiana) moved a lot before I was three. From there we moved to Warren, Illinois, and then the family settled in Crawfordsville, Indiana, which I consider my hometown.
What did your parents do for a living? My dad, Howard, a Purdue University Agriculture major, managed Dekalb Seed Corn plants straight out of college. My mom, Alice, held many secretarial / administrative jobs, but for most of my childhood was the Office Manager for Dr. Baird, our family physician.
Tell us about your family? I am the youngest of three girls. I married Paul Titus, Esq., July 31, 1993. I have three children from a previous marriage: Matthew, Zachary, and Morgan. Of course, last but not least, is Maxwell Titus. We have two dogs: Misty and Dobie.
What's in your cd player? I have a six cd player - Dave Matthews and Tim Reynolds at Carnegie Hall; Caedmon's Call; Norah Jones; A Moe Mix for her ma; Michael Franti and Spearhead; Los Lobos.
What's your favorite sporting event to watch in the Olympics? It used to be ice skating, but probably now, gymnastics.
What was your first job? I worked in the cornfields detasseling corn. It was a hot and sweaty job - involving sunburn, corn poisoning and minimum wage.
What was your childhood ambition? To compete in the Olympics in track and field. Though I felt called to the ministry at the age of eight - but didn't think girls could be anything but nuns, vocationally speaking. I was not Catholic and even at eight years old I knew that a husband was in my future.
What's your favorite movie? Hmm, that is a hard one. So I'll put in a quirky family favorite, Cold Comfort Farm. And probably, Moulin Rouge and Love Actually.
What's one goal you have for the coming year? Balancing what I have done over the past nine years at CBC with what I am now called to do.
What's your idea of a perfect day? So many versions. But it must involve relaxed, unhurried time with family and friends - great background music and nature filled views (be it mountains, the lake, or farm land).
What's your definition of a retreat? Two: a Havana roof top, and in my jammies on the farm.
What do you look for in a close friend? Depth, ability to laugh at self and me, compassion, courage, grace and last but most importantly authenticity / honesty.
What are your biggest challenges? Doing what I feel is right, and being concerned about popular opinion (THIS IS A HUGE PROBLEM FOR BAPTIST PASTORS). Secondly, remaining authentic to who I am. I know that most would say that this seems to be a challenge I have overcome. CBC is blessed with a good sense of humor and a heart filled with compassion. I consider it a stellar moment when Billy James says, "Girl, you just ain't right, " while he stands beside me partnering in ministry. I think for some, though, belly laughing can seem contradictory to a serious call to a spiritually deep life and Christian commitment. I beg to differ. I believe the joy of a soul overflowing is a gift to an often far too cynical world.
What do you think makes a good leader? "Integrity and authenticity. Know who you are and do not try to be someone else." That is a quote from a friend of mine, Rev. Brian Hughes. But I would also say, do and say the right thing when it needs to be said. Now I am not saying that leaders need to put sirens on their heads and hand out tickets to offenders. However, when someone in their faith community repeatedly breaks bad - spiritual leaders must speak lovingly, but sternly to them. Grace is as much a part of guidance as the correction. |